Experimenting With Sex. It's Up to You and No One Else
I’ve been sitting on this for a few weeks now, tossing up whether I should say something or not, and by now it’s probably far too late. But I thought I would speak my piece anyway, just in case some other lost souls find their way here. The traffic stats for my site tell me [...]
Read more »Is Overwhelming Passion Ever A Good Enough Excuse? What About Love, Then?
As a romance writer, I’ve made a career out of overwhelming passion and love, and I adore those moments when the hero is brought to his knees by the realization that despite everything, he loves her, dammit. (And even, lately; he loves him, goddamit to hell!) But real life isn’t nearly as romantic, and love [...]
Read more »MM and MMF – Let’s Try Again. Why Do Women Like Men Who Like Men?
It shouldn’t be a surprise that some readers struggle with the idea of male-on-male (MM) romance or male-male-female (MMF) action inside their erotic romance novels. I got this note from Christine on Facebook, and she graciously allowed me to quote her: “Hi, Tracy, Wow, I thought Only gay people liked to read MM, I just [...]
Read more »Does Reading Erotic Romance Improve Your Sex Life? Tell Me To Win.
Romance novels sometimes threaten the male population. They feel that women get too many bad ideas about an idealized romantic relationship that men can’t live up to. I spoke about this when Alan Elsner jumped up and down about it recently. Erotic romance novels further polarize the population. Yet there are some strong positive influences [...]
Read more »Four Excellent BDSM Sites
Note, I’m not about to steer you to porn sites. This is the real deal. Places where you can explore extreme kink and the real world of BDSM and the people who take it very seriously indeed. Do not go there thinking you’re about to get a cheap thrill. The citizens of these sites won’t [...]
Read more »Throbbing vs. Thrusting. The Glories of Sexual Tension.
The next time you hear an erotic romance author being described as “hot!,” stop to consider for a minute exactly what that means. Because these days, there’s a fracture in what readers want, exactly, when they say they want “hot!” Because hot ain’t what it used to be. When erotica first hit the market in [...]
Read more »The Price of Beauty Is A Bloody Rip Off. Don't Pay It.
Unfortunately, I can’t even remember the brand name of the damn thing now. I was pretty pissed about it, so I wasn’t taking notes. Wish I had, because I just spent twenty minutes trying to back track via Facebook adverts, looking for it. But they don’t repeat once you’ve clicked on them, so I can’t [...]
Read more »What Is It With Gum Chewing? Because It Ain't Pretty, Believe Me
I managed to avoid picking up the fine American habit of gum chewing, even though I love a great game of baseball, and For Love of The Game is one of my all time favourite movies. I’m immensely glad I did, because I watch people walking around chewing on their cud and I shudder. The [...]
Read more »Sexy Every Day – Figure Out Your Own Sensual Standards
Part 1 of this series: Sexy Is A Long Term Thing, Not Something You Spray On In The Morning Part 2 of this series: How to Start Thinking Sexy 24/7 Part 3 of this series: How to Start Looking More Sexy – Body Appearance Part 4 of this series: Sexy In Action – Staying Fit and Limber _____ [...]
Read more »A Smattering of Observations.
It’s been a rather odd day, full of thing sexy and not, so I thought that instead of trying to pull together a coherent blog post, I’d mind dump. First of all I came across a collection of things very unsexy indeed, including the latest in ear-stretching fashions, and Brazil’s latest idea about low-rider jeans [...]
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